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STRAIGHT MOVES: Maintaining Flat-Ironed Hair With Minimal Heat

I remember the first time I had my hair flat-ironed after going natural. I was AMAZED! First of all, the process was nowhere as difficult and time-consuming as I thought it would be. Second of all, my hair looked incredible. Compared to when I used to relax it, this hair had so much more body and life to it! The first thing out of my mouth was, “If I knew my hair could look this good, straight or curly, I would have never relaxed it!” However, maintaining healthy flat-ironed hair still requires work, which I’ve learned over the years.

HomieLoverFriend and I gettin' our dance on in December 2008

I have to admit something. Though I’m pretty handy and self-sufficient when it comes to my hair, I haven’t ever washed, blow dried, and flat-ironed my hair on my own since going natural. The main reason is because I don’t have the best flat-iron or blow drier, which I hope to rectify soon. I do have a good enough iron for touch ups, but I’m happy to say I haven’t picked it up once in the week since I flat-ironed my hair! This is a feat for me, because I used to be borderline-obsessive about my flat-iron touch ups. When I started teetering on the brink of heat damage from using the iron almost every other day, I knew I’d have to find a new way to maintain my flat-ironed locks until wash day.

During my most recent flat-iron rendezvous. P.S. - Don't mess with Sunset rum from St. Vincent...

My maintenance routine is pretty damn simple, and requires 4 tools: my trusty satin scarf, Denman brush, duckbill clips, and coconut oil.

When I was relaxed, I used to just sleep on my hair any ole kinda way and get up early to make it look decent in the morning. That was the same vibe I had when I went natural and started flat-ironing. Now, I see that maintenance, especially during sleepytime, takes so much work out of the morning routine! Wrapping my hair is a must, even though it took me a while to get the hang of it. I use my Denman to brush my hair in a circular clockwise motion, and use 3-4 duckbill clips to pin my hair down at various sections. My wrap never looks perfect, but once I get my hair laid, I’m good to go. I tie it down snugly (not tightly – I hate that line across the forehead in the morning), and hit the sheets!

TOLD you my wraps aren't pretty! When I saw how bad this one looked, I asked the Mister to wait for me to re-wrap so he could take another shot. He said no.

In the morning, I remove the scarf and clips, and use the Denman to brush down my hair. I smooth my hair with a small amount of coconut oil (which adds shine and fights frizz), and I’m on my way! No extra heat required!

Of course, with straightened hair, moisture isn’t an ally. If I get a bit frizzy from a steamy post-shower bathroom or when it’s very humid out, I apply some coconut oil, wrap my hair, tie it down, and that usually remedies the situation right away. It’s a similar process if I put my hair up one day, and want to get rid of those annoying hair elastic waves when I wear it down. In rare circumstances I do have to bring out the good ole flat-iron, but I do what I can to avoid any extra usage.

The message of the day? Wrapping your hair is the way, the truth, and the light if you want to maintain healthy and happy flat-ironed hair!

Are you a natural-haired chica who flat-irons your hair? Do you find yourself reaching for the iron often for touch-ups, or you manage with another technique? What’s the best flat-iron and blow dryer out now? A sista needs some new tools!

Fancy Pants: Natural Hairstyles For Weddings (& Other Formal Events)

 

Photo via africanamericanweddinghairstyles.blogspot.ca

Is it just me, or does it feel like April was a total blur? For me, that means that lots of awesome and fun things are just around the corner – and Wedding Season 2012 is about to kick off! This post is dedicated to those natural-haired brides and wedding guests who are looking for hair ideas for the big day!

A Few Things To Consider:

  • Weather predictions: Will it be hot and humid? What about if it’s a damp, rainy day? Think about how your hair type holds up in different kinds of weather.
  • Wedding time: Are you doing an evening ceremony, or is it earlier in the day? Consider how early you’re willing to get up and get started on hair prep, and how much time you’ll be able to devote to the process.
  • Leaving on a jet plane? If you’re leaving for your honeymoon immediately after the wedding, you might want a style that will carry you through the vacation as well…
  • Dress/Accessory style: Halter? Sweetheart? Detailed back? Dangly earrings? Birdcage veil? The type of dress and accompanying accessories will play into the hairstyle you choose.
  • Personality: What’s your personal style? In my opinion, it’s good to do something extra-special for the day, but don’t deviate too much from what you’re comfortable with. You should still be YOU.
  • Your hands or someone else’s? Are you hiring a stylist or prepping your style on your own?
  • Hair length and type: Make sure to work with your hair, not against it!

Many brides feel that natural kinks and curls cannot be gussied up and fancified for glamorous events, and nothing could be further from the truth! Straightening safely is always an option (it’s the one I took last year), but it’s not your ONLY one. Here are some looks that prove my point:

Photo via munaluchibridal.com

Photo via essence.com

Photo via essence.com

Photo via essence.com

Photo via offbeatbride.com

Photo via offbeatbride.com

Photo via visualize.us

Photo via africanamericanweddinghairstyles.blogspot.ca

Many beautiful styles can be created by working with our natural hair. Braids, twists, flexi rods, roller sets, wash n’ go fros, TWAs, updos, half up/half down styles – all can be worked into something special for that big day or important event. Many people are still of the mindset that while natural hair is great, it still ‘needs’ to be straightened for a fancy outing. When I first started wearing my hair naturally, I echoed that sentiment and straightened my hair for any special event. As I’ve learned to do new things with my hair, I’ve had so much more fun creating intricate and glamorous styles on my own! Natural-haired ladies often praise the versatility of their kinks, curls, and waves – don’t forget about that versatility when it comes to your wedding (or other formal event) style!

What is your favourite natural formal style? Do you tend to reach for the flat iron or do you rock the curls? Are you a natural-haired bride-to-be? How is the hairstyle decision-making going? If you were a natural-haired bride, how did you wear your hair for the big day?

 

Artsy Fartsy: Natural Hair Overload

When I started this blog, the impetus was to have a medium of discussion on natural hair, especially for my Canadian ladies. My second thought was that I would get bored of talking solely about hair all day, every day (I have a tragically short attention span), and therefore the entire vision of ’83 To Infinity was fleshed out. However, I spent pretty much this entire past weekend talking about/being about natural hair, and I had way too much fun!

First up was my radio interview with Emily, a Masters of Journalism student at Ryerson University here in Toronto. Emily had reached out to an online group that I am a member of, seeking to speak with Black women for her Radio Documentary class project. The topic? Discussing our hair history, hair choices, and how those choices have affected or been influenced by current beauty standards. Inspired by a friend of hers who admitted to wanting to wear her hair naturally, but having no idea how to go about it, Emily wanted to both help her friend and educate herself on a world she didn’t even know about. Unfortunately, after a vetting process that I personally didn’t understand or agree with, it was determined that the group would not be taking part in Emily’s project. I decided to reach out to her on my own, and we scheduled a taping date for Saturday afternoon.

My homegirl Mariah joined us, and I think we ended up giving Emily WAY more material than she needed! Emily engaged us with very insightful questions – she was intrigued to learn that my HomieLoverFriend was not a fan of my natural look when I debuted it, and she drew a lot of truth out of Mariah when she discussed the message of self-love that she was sending to her young daughter. We were lucky in that Emily didn’t fire question after question at us – she would put a topic out there, or frame a loose question, and then we’d go to town on it! She’ll have the difficult task now of mincing all of her material down into a 10 minute project, but I got the feeling that she learned a LOT more than she expected to, and we all had a great time sharing our personal stories. Sounds cliché to say, but if this helps even one person (Emily’s friend who’s thinking of going natural – I’m lookin’ at you!), then it was time well spent.

Once Emily and Mariah headed home, I focused on my hair in another arena – getting prepped for a photo shoot! I had been invited to the iHeartmyhair photo shoot with Sean Anthony Photography, and had to finally do something about this tired-ass bun I’d been dragging around all week. I shampooed, conditioned, and twisted my hair into approx. 15 twists (using Earthtones Naturals products), then decided to step it up a notch by curling the twists around some flexi-rods. Sat under my hooded dryer for about 30 minutes, then hit the sack in order to be ready for the early morning call time.

Sunday morning, bright and early, I headed out to Dundas West and got ready for some photo-shoot fun. My twist/curl-out came out fabulously (sorry – was too rushed to take a pic), so I was looking forward to what would be next. Añya, the super-sweet and super-focused lady of iHeartmyhair hooked my hair up into a fly side-swept look. Rita of Salon Beauty Mark did the damn thing with the makeup, then I was sent off to Sean to put the vision together.

It was my first time working with Sean, and he was AMAZING. He wanted me to be the “crazy one” – so he had me growling and scowling and silent screaming like nobody’s business! Every once in a while, he’d look at the camera shots and let out a “Wooooooo!!” At first, I thought he was just gassing me up and trying to boost my confidence, but when he showed me a few of the raw shots, I was like, “Damn! Who’s that girl?” I was giving some fierce Grace Jones, y’all. Didn’t think I had it in me, but the camera said otherwise.

The best part of the shoot was connecting with new and not-so-new faces (big up Kim, Marsha, and Shereen!), and talking about all things hair and beyond. It was awesome seeing so much beautiful hair in one spot – and in great contrast to my previous guest post about natural hair and fashion, I was so happy to be in a zone that not only was embracing natural hair, but – ahem – actually knew how to style it. Lol. Accessory queens Toni Daley and Ashley Alexis McFarlane came through with some awesome pieces, and so far, the shots I’ve seen have been GORGEOUS! Here’s a sneak peek courtesy of Sean Anthony Photography:

 Aren’t these pictures EVERYTHING? Añya and her team caught some other great shots from the day as well:

Me and the man with the master plan - the size of my mouth shows you how geeked I was!

I was in some DEEP convo here...LOL!

The lovely Añya and I...after I tried to make myself a bit more "normal looking" for the drive home!

All in all, I had a great weekend full of natural hair love. Emily ended up catching up with a few models at the shoot as well – that girl is a hustla! I’m hoping to get a copy of her project and share it with y’all, so keep an eye out for that! I guess there are ways to talk one subject to death in a way that’s enlightening and entertaining – this weekend taught me that!

Today is the perfect day for this post – still reminiscing about the weekend past, but looking forward to the weekend to come! What do you guys think of the photo shoot shots? Major thanks to Emily, Añya, Sean, Rita, and all the lovely ladies at the shoot! 

Spring Flings: New Season, New Hair Regimen

Sunshine makes me wanna get ready for Caribana! Photo courtesy of iShotYa Photography

I don’t know about your neck of the woods, but this winter in Toronto was the mildest I’ve ever seen! While I’m not complaining (I’m really not a cold weather kind of gyal), I wouldn’t have minded getting a LITTLE more usage out of my expensive winter tires…but hey, it is what it is!

This week, Canada’s Screwface capital has turned those frowns upside down, and everyone is a bit more smiley than usual. The sun is out, temperatures are in the teens (Celsius, folks), and people are able to drive with windows down, sunroofs open, and music blasting at ignorant levels. Spring looks like it’s fully springing around these parts, and I am not mad. Since this is Canada, we may get snow next week – but for now, the city is enjoying the early kiss of warmth.

When it comes to hair care, I always switch things up in the warmer weather. I follow different regimens in the cold vs. hot seasons, so it’s about that time for me to start implementing some of my spring/summer hair plans:

Styles: 

In the winter, I like to keep my hair up and protected – fragile ends rubbing on rough cotton scarves and turtlenecks? No thank you. Hair exposed to wild winds and below-freezing temps? I’ll pass. During the winter, buns, pinned up twists, and silk-lined hats are my best friends – but during the spring and summer, I let loose! Twist-outs, braid-outs, I love anything out – my wash n’ gos flourish in the heat too. I’ll also do a flat-iron here or there, but definitely not in the humidity of Toronto summers. Spring and autumn are my hair sweet spots, so I’m looking forward to the return of good hair days!

Conditioning:

I’m gearing up to pack away my rich, heavy conditioners and get into my springtime products. Even though the winter was pretty mild, it was still winter! I found myself using heavier conditioners like Elasta QP’s DPR-11 on a regular basis in order to keep my hair moisturized. Once the weather gets warmer, I find I can leave DPR-11 for deep treatments only, and go back to my Herbal Essences Hello Hydration. I’m also looking to order some more Earthtones Naturals products and see how they hold up in the warmer months. During the spring/summer, my hair is usually good with a light application of  coconut oil or HEHH as a leave-in…and I always keep my spritz bottle full of water handy! Honey also goes back into my HEHH for co-washing – as a natural humectant, honey helps to retain moisture and protect from humidity. Some people find that honey works better for them in the winter, but it helps my curls clump together and stay moist and frizz-free during the summer.

Good Weather, Bad Habits:

I always need to keep myself in check during the spring and summer. Because my wash n’ gos are easier to manage and look better in the warmth, I tend to get lazy at times and rock it for too long, leading to knots and tangles when it’s wash time. As we get closer to summertime, I also need to take extra care to use moisturizing products with some kind of sunscreen. My hair has the tendency of getting bleached to a bright red colour by the sun, and the excess heat can be just as damaging as the bitter cold. I’m not a swimmer, but if I plan to frolic in some open body of water (which actually scares me to death), I have to remember to at least rinse my hair as soon as I get out of the water. Nothing worse than having crusty chlorinated hair, or hair with dried salt in it. Trying to work with your hair when it’s in a dried, angry state is never good, and takes too much time away from my fun in the sun!

Do you make any changes to your hair regimen when the seasons change? What products and styles do you enjoy in the warmer months? 

 P.S. – Today is the day – my Toronto Fashion Week debut! Check here for details and how you can watch the show!

 

Hair Essentials: What Could You Do Without?

Photo source

In my conversations with other natural-haired ladies, we often share our product and styling regimens. Shampoos, pre-poos, conditioners, deep conditioners, leave-in treatments, oils, Curlformers, flexi-rods, clips, pins, and combs – at times it can be information overload!

When I first went natural, I fell into the trap of product junky-ism. I ended up spending a lot of time and money learning how to care for and style my hair, and while the time was well-spent, a good amount of the money was not. Natural hair sites and Fotki pages had me picking up any product or tool that worked for someone else. I bought products according to “hair type” – the alphanumeric classification where your hair could be a 2a, 3c, or 4b, or any mixture of them all. I tried to find my “hair twin” – that other naturalista whose curls looked similar in texture to mine – and followed her regimen. Sometimes it would work, sometimes it wouldn’t. At the end of the day, I learned 3 important lessons during my bout of product junky-ism:

  1. Most people are genuinely trying to help by sharing their product and styling regimen. Use them as references.
  2. Be aware that some people/brands are preying on your naiveté. Do not allow anyone to take advantage of the fact that you’re still learning about your hair.
  3. Everyone’s hair is different. I’ve thrown the whole “hair typing” and “hair twin” significance out the window, because once it’s all said and done, everyone’s hair reacts differently to various products or styling. Use your references, but learn how to work with your hair.

That being said, I started thinking the other day about hair minimalism. Though my current regimen is pretty damn simple, I wondered what the bare minimum of products/tools would be for me. Here’s what I came up with:

  • A wide-tooth comb: Finger detangling is great, but I’ll admit that I don’t always have the patience for it. A good wide-tooth comb with rounded tips is the best thing for me to use to detangle and part my hair.
  • Pure coconut oil: I can’t live without it. My hair follicles shout for joy when I use coconut oil to condition and style my hair. It’s such a versatile care and styling aid that I have to have it!
  • Shea butter: Another simple staple for me. I can use it to twist, seal ends, slick down baby hairs – and it’s good for my hair too!
  • Bobby pins: I need ones like this. My hair laughs in the face of bobby pins like this. I can pin up my twists, pin my hair into a bun,  get it up out of my way, and do whatever I need to do. Bobby pins (the thuggish ruggish kind) are great, inexpensive friends of mine.
  • A good shampoo/conditioner combo: I’ve gotta wash my hair, right? Herbal Essences or Earthtones Naturals are two of my tried and true favourites – give me a shampoo and conditioner, and I’m good to go.
  • A satin head scarf: As I wrote in my recent Three Naturals guest post, a satin scarf is vital to good overnight hair care. Plus, it can double as a scarf for bad hair days, or a tool to tie down my baby hairs after I’ve slathered them with shea butter!

I think that’s pretty much it! If I needed to get right down to the bare minimum, this is what I’d be rockin’ with. No Denman brush, no blow dryer, no hooded dryer, no zillions of lotions, potions, and mixtures – just the basics.

Have you ever fallen into the trap of product junky-ism? Are you still in it, or have you managed to dig yourself out? If you had to go down to the bare hair minimum, what products/tools would you keep?

Hair Boredom: What To Do When You Need Something New

Hey y’all! I got a few posts out this week, but still feel neglectful :( I had an assignment due for one of the classes I’m taking this semester (I’m finishing up a post-grad certificate in Health Promotion), so I had to devote a lot of research and writing time to that.

TGIF in a major way though! It’s shaping up to be another busy weekend, but I’m looking forward to catching up on some sleep and FINALLY doing something with my hair! It’s been draped up in a tired bun for the past few days, so I can’t wait to wash and make it look half-decent.

Can’t lie though – I’ve been getting increasingly bored with my hair. My usual two-strand twist-out is getting PLAYED out, so I need something new, and fast. Part of this yearning for newness likely also has to do with the fact that the days are getting longer, which means spring is just around the corner (even though we’ve been enjoying a crazy mild winter in Toronto). With spring comes all things fresh and new, and I always get the urge to switch things up once winter thaws out. But what to do?

Photo souce: Party Over Hair

I’ve been dreaming about twists for a while now. Thick kinky twists, small Senegalese twists…this style is so easy yet so versatile. I’d love to rock some super-long twists to get the best of both worlds: I can take a hair break AND still have crazy style options? Where do I sign up?

Photo source: Popstar

Even further back than the twists, I’ve had colour on my mind. I usually go light for the spring/summer, but skipped 2011. I’m craving some multi-dimensional pops of colour, and Tanika Ray has always been my hair dye dream girl. I’ve coloured before with no real damage, so I’m not afraid to take that leap. Some sunshiny-bright hair would definitely give me a new look, so maybe that’s the way to go…

Maybe I just need to do a quick lil’ flat iron and rock some straight locks for a while? I haven’t straightened my hair in a few months, so maybe that’s the change I need. The only thing that annoys me about straight hair is having to wrap it at night…sometimes a girl just wants to throw it in a bun and jump in the sack! I can’t be bothered with the extra work at times – but it definitely allows me to keep my ‘do looking fresh for a LONG time. A good wrap at night = no need to do any touch-ups with the flat iron. I got a great trim at my last hair appointment and I’ve been working hard to protect my ends, so it would be nice to see how much length I’ve gained/retained…

With my favourite cup - one that I got at my 3rd birthday party!

Makeup-less...but I could have at least put a lil Vaseline on my lips :/

With the little sis!

…or maybe I just need to stop being lazy. If I put in more effort, I’m sure I could make the most of what I’ve got! I was (at one point) pretty creative with updos (like the top photo – loose flat twisted front into a low bun) – if I took the time, I’m sure I could come up with something cute! I could also pull out some heat protectant serum with my trusty blow dryer and do a blown-out wash n’ go (like second photo) or blow my hair out prior to twisting. Or, I could take my own advice and get busy with my Curlformers (used in third photo)! I’ve been meaning to rock with them as of late, so I need to be like Nike and just do it. Maybe the only change I need is to make some more time for myself and explore something other than a bun or a twist-out. Could the answer be so simple?

Anyone out there also stuck in a hair rut? Do you have any big plans for a new spring style? Have an idea for a style I should try? Let a sista know!

Call Me Baby Oprah: My Earthtones Naturals Interview

Photo via http://www.shallownation.com

Did you see yesterday’s review of Earthtones Naturals? I’m still sitting here, fluffing up and twirling my hair in all its glorious softness. I’ve gotten great multiple day wear out of the products, so my hair is happy!

Last week, I was able to get in touch with Susan Walker, ND, owner and creator of Earthtones Naturals. I had a few questions for her about the line, Naturopathic medicine, and entrepreneurship, and she was gracious enough to oblige me! She had some great answers, y’all. Take a look below, and get to know Susan and Earthtones Naturals a bit better.

Photo via uweightloss.com

Introduce yourself to the ’83 To Infinity readers! Tell us three interesting facts about yourself.

My name is Susan McDonald and I was born in Barbados 30-some odd years ago! I have 2 beautiful daughters who inspire me everyday to pursue my purpose and build a legacy for them. As hard as I try to resist I LOVE Aero Bubbles which will probably get in the way of one of my goals of entering a fitness competition this year.

What was the impetus behind the creation of Earthtones Naturals? Who or what inspired you?

Earthtones was conceptualized about 5 years ago in 2007. I love makeup and, while not a makeup artist, I am into playing around with different products creating different looks on myself. I was having some trouble finding a foundation or powder that matched my complexion properly. They were either too red or too yellow and it didn’t look natural. Additionally I found that there weren’t a lot of makeup lines for women of colour. Then I started looking into the ingredients in the makeup that I did find and discovered that many of them can be toxic to the body. I was inspired at this point to create a make-up line for women of colour that was actually beneficial for the skin. I chose women of colour because being someone of this demographic I’ve noticed that we are often an under-serviced and overlooked population; hence the reason I wasn’t able to find a lot of makeup specifically for us.

I discussed this idea with my husband and tried to think of a name of the line. It was he who thought of the name Earthtones and I loved it! It encompassed everything about the product line including the demographic – the skin tone of the women using it and the “earthiness” of the line. The line remained in its conceptual stage for a few years due to various reasons. And then the real inspiration to take it to completion came after the birth of my first child. I’m adopted and have no knowledge of my birth parents or family. When my daughter was born it was an unbelievable experience and I was just in awe at this baby that had my DNA. She was the only person in the world I knew of that looked like me. What really had me curious is where she got her hair from! She was born with a lot of it and we were told by many people that it would fall out and grow back again. Her hair was beautiful and unlike my texture or my husband’s. When her hair didn’t fall out and actually started to grow longer I realized that I had to teach her to love her beautiful hair, and that the only way to do that was to be an example to her. I tried products that were made “just for her” hair and they absolutely did not work. They would moisturize her hair initially and then her hair would become dry soon after. I knew about the negatives of good old fashioned hair grease and was not really able to find a product for her. And the Earthtones Naturals product line was born.

You’re also a Naturopathic Doctor. Could you give us a crash course in Naturopathic medicine? Did that background help you with the creation of Earthtones Naturals?

A Naturopathic Doctor is considered to be a general practitioner of natural medicine. Naturopathic doctors are guided by six fundamental healing principles:

  • First, to do no harm, by using methods and medicines that minimize the risk of harmful side effects.
  • To treat the causes of disease, by identifying and removing the underlying causes of illness, rather than suppressing symptoms.
  • To teach the principles of healthy living and preventative medicine, by sharing knowledge with patients and encouraging individual responsibility for health.
  • To heal the whole person through individualized treatment, by understanding the unique physical, mental, emotional, genetic, environmental and social factors that contribute to illness, and customizing treatment protocols to the patient.
  • To emphasize prevention, by partnering with the patient to assess risk factors and recommend appropriate naturopathic interventions to maintain health and prevent illness.
  • To support the healing power of the body, by recognizing and removing obstacles to the body’s inherent self-healing process.
As naturopathic doctors we are taught to address underlying dysfunctions that can lead to physical illnesses, and be vigilant of what we put into our bodies, as well as on our bodies in order to minimize toxin exposure. The Environmental Working Group has a database called Skin Deep which outlines potentially toxic, allergenic and problematic ingredients and the products they’re in. http://www.ewg.org/skindeep/
Some of these dangerous ingredients are linked to hormonal conditions such as low thyroid function and infertility, and certain cancers. As a result, we need to be concerned with the use of certain chemicals and ingredients in our cosmetics. With this in mind it was my goal to create products that work with ingredients that are actually beneficial and nourishing to the hair and body, instead of being harmful.
It seems that many natural hair care lines available in Canada have high price mark-ups. What factors help you to keep Earthtones Naturals cost effective?

This is a great question. When I was looking for natural hair product lines to use on myself and my daughter, I found that same thing. One product that was my favourite for wash n’ go hair for a short time period was available for about $22 online from the U.S. That same product was selling here for $34! Even when I purchased the products in bulk and paid for shipping, it was still cheaper to order the products from the company in the U.S. than to purchase the same amount of that product here. I thought it was absolutely ridiculous and way too expensive. I would go into a store and by the time I purchased a shampoo, conditioner and moisturizer I was looking at spending over $70! The mark-ups are just too much. I feel very strongly about supplying quality products at reasonable prices. Now don’t get me wrong – you’re not getting poor quality products with inferior ingredients. You’re getting products with extremely high quality ingredients that actually work. I just don’t believe they need to cost an arm and a leg.

And while making a profit is always important in business, I believe that first and foremost, providing extremely effective products that are affordable for everyone is equally as important. As much as possible I try to source my raw materials from Canadian suppliers. In the event that I can’t and I think the ingredient will be extremely beneficial in a product and there is no substitute, I’ll purchase raw materials from the U.S. Buying from Canadian suppliers really helps to keep my costs down. And for my customers, buying from a Canadian company will keep more money in their pocket. It gets expensive for boutiques and stores to import products in from the U.S. and this cost is passed onto the consumer. On top of this they need to make a profit. This is why a lot of natural products cost a fortune in Canada as it’s costly for them to be imported.

What is your personal hair story?

My natural hair journey began and was put on pause in 2002. I went to a popular salon in Toronto to get a wash n’ wear relaxer which was a texturizer. My hair started breaking after the texturizer and I went through a period of braiding before finally doing the Big Chop a few months later. After my hair was cut the stylist said to me “Is your hair normally this dry?” I was devastated! She gave me no advice on how to care for my hair and I didn’t know what to do or what products to use. I promptly made an appointment to get my hair texturized and did that for about 7 years. I experienced a lot of growth (past my shoulders) and it was the longest my hair had ever been.

My natural hair journey started again in 2009 after the birth of my first daughter Nyssa. I was becoming unhappy with the way my texturized hair was looking. My hairdresser over processed some sections and I ended up having straight and curly sections to my hair. After Nyssa was born my hair started falling out in clumps. This is typically normal since during pregnancy the shedding phase is put on hold and the hair can grow quite a bit. I decided to do the Big Chop for good this time in December 2009, motivated by the desire for my daughter to love her own hair when she got older. I was definitely scared! I didn’t really know what my natural hair texture was like, nor did I know how to care for it.

After my Big Chop my hair was so short! I started to look for various products to “define my curls”. The only thing is that I didn’t see any! So through Youtube videos I became aware of specific products and tried many of them. I spent a fortune and most of them didn’t work. I finally found a curl defining gelly that did work for me that wasn’t one of the popular ones. My hair started growing out and the curls started becoming more apparent. I would get so many compliments on my hair and people would constantly stop me to ask me what I was putting on my hair. In November 2010, almost a year after my big chop I hosted my first Natural Hair Party. The response was incredible and I educated my guests on what I had researched about hair care and beneficial ingredients for hair. I showed which products I used in my hair and how to use them. As my hair started to grow longer and the weather became colder, the product I used for my wash n’ go style no longer worked. My hair felt dry and I didn’t like it. I made the decision to create my own product and I really started to diligently research ingredients and began to formulate the products for the Earthtones Naturals line. The first product took 10 months to perfect. Originally the products were for myself and my daughter; however I started using them on other people with phenomenal results. And the rest is, as they say, history.


What advice do you have for others who want to take the plunge into entrepreneurship?

Like the Nike slogan, Just Do It. Don’t get me wrong it’s scary to start a business. There is a huge fear of failure. However, you need to get out what is IN you. When I come to the end of my life I don’t want to have any regrets about not pursuing something because I was scared. It’s hard work but extremely rewarding. There will be times of failure but that fear of it shouldn’t stop us from pursuing our purpose. We always ask the question, “what if I fail?” However the most important question we don’t think to ask is “what if I succeed?” You’ll never know unless you do it.

What’s next for Earthtones Naturals? If you look 5 years into the future, where do you see the line?

To be quite honest and extremely confident I want Earthtones Naturals to be the top-selling natural hair product line in Canada! I know this is extremely ambitious but I’m dreaming very big. I am also working to add body care and makeup to our product line up.


Is there anything else you’d like to add?

I think it’s great that so many women of colour are embracing their natural hair texture. I’m approached very often by women whose hair is natural but they don’t wear their hair in its textured style because they don’t know how to or which products to use. We need to be proud of our God-given hair, understand our texture and how to care for our hair. It’s great to be able to develop these products and I’m humbled by the comments I receive from people when they’ve tried them and realize that they work really well for their hair or their childrens’ hair.

This is what Earthtones Naturals is all about; allowing women to be able to embrace who they truly are by providing products that enhance their natural beauty with ingredients that are actually beneficial and nourishing to their bodies. It’s my hope that everyone who tries the Earthtones Naturals product will truly be inspired to experience the freedom of rocking their curls and coils, and truly love their hair.

Many thanks to Susan for providing such amazing insight! If you can tell me that you a) didn’t learn something new, b) couldn’t relate to Susan’s personal story, or c) weren’t inspired by her drive and determination, I’ll give you a cookie. And conclude that you are devoid of human emotion.

My first mini-interview, y’all! I tried to come up with interesting questions, and questions that you all might want answers to – what did you think? Is there something you want to ask Susan that I didn’t think of? Hit up the comments section or get in touch with her at susan at earthtonesnaturals dot com!

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Not Quite Short But Not Quite Long: Styling Hair In The “In-Between” Phase

I recently had a friend hit me up on Facebook, asking for details about my NYE hair style. She said, “Please tell me how you get your hair like you have in your current profile pic? I’m looking for my options for natural hair styles. My hair is much shorter so it may not look so fro-fabulous, but I’m willing to try.” That took me back to the days when my hair was much shorter than it is now, and the constant thoughts of “What am I going to do with it today?”

As I’ve mentioned before, I transitioned to natural hair for one year, then did my big chop in August of 2008. My hair was the shortest it had ever been, and I had no clue how to style it. My favourite online resource was Fotki, a photography site where I found a ton of naturalistas congregating and sharing their hair regimens and styles. I quickly created an account and joined the network of women documenting their journeys from big chops and beyond. For women who did the ultimate big chop, I heard from many of them that things get a bit frustrating when they start to gain a bit of length. I took some time to look back at my hair in those early days, and thought to post some of those photos here for anyone who needs some inspiration. If your hair is not really short, but not really long – this post is for you!

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This was the first picture I took when I left the salon that did my big chop.The look on my face says it all: "WTF???" I had zero clue what I was doing...lol!

Just after a photo shoot - hair was in a twist-out, which was my go-to style in the early days.

A month after the BC (big chop), I had my hair professionally styled for a wedding. Cornrows on one side, with coils that were released for a full, curly look. Loved it!

This was the first time I tried a twist-out on dry hair - I loved the stretch and the fluffiness of it!

Here, I tried doing a twist-out with really small twists. Led to an entirely new look, with much more defined curls. Pinned back the front and sides, and was good to go!

During that in-betweeny phase, hair accessories like bobby pins, clips, and scarves were by BFFs. Here, I used a silk scarf to pull my curls back into a pouf.

I started doing braid-outs with coiled ends, and got a different, but defined look.

A two-day old braid-out - in that early stage, braid-outs stretched my hair and gave me a bit more length than I thought I had.

An oldie but goodie from January 2009 - I used bobby pins to shape almost every style I did. Who's that on that far right? Rowena from nubiansoulslocks.blogspot.com!

For the days when I wanted to let my twists chill for a bit, I pulled out the crochet hat...cute and simple style, especially if I knew my twists weren't dry enough to undo!

What were my favourite products back in the early days? I used Pantene Pro-V’s Relaxed & Natural conditioner, Queen Helene’s conditioner, Aussie’s 3-Minute Miracle, Elasta QP Mango leave-in conditioner, Ramoni leave-in conditioner (mixed with extra virgin olive oil aka EVOO), Organics Lock & Twist Gel, IC Fantasia Gel, and Kinky Curly Curling Custard. Yeah, I was a bit of a product junkie! I’ve simplified a lot since then, but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with new naturals indulging in product overload – it’s part of the learning process.

Patience is another part of the in-between phase. Once I started focusing on the health of my hair versus the length of my hair, I began to enjoy the whole journey even more. Now that my hair has grown, I look back and realize that certain styles actually looked better then than now! Sometimes the quest for long hair is overrated – if that’s your goal, then by all means, go for it! Just don’t forget to enjoy where you are right now. Natural hair lends itself well to many different style options, so try them all! Twist-outs, braid-outs, coil-outs – do them on wet hair, do them on dry hair, do them on lightly blow-dried hair, do them big or small. Wash n’ gos, careful flat ironing…the options are endless! Get creative and enjoy!

Are you smack dab in the middle of this “in-between” phase right now? Are you enjoying it, or are you waiting for more length? If you have any style or product tips that have worked for you, let us know!

The Perfect ‘Lazy Hair Day’ Updo

How was your weekend everyone? Mine was a pretty damn good one, I have to say! Friday found me nursing a migraine for the better part of the day, but after a few naps, cups of mint tea, and Aleve gel caps, I was good to go. The weather was perfect for a night out on the town, so the plan was to hit up The Drake Hotel to celebrate a friend’s birthday.

Sidenote: If you’re into classic hip hop, you might want to find yourself at The Drake Hotel on the 1st Friday night of each month for “Never Forget Action” – this party is dope. 

Anyways, because I had lazed around all day while sleeping off my headache, my hair was the definition of HOT MESS. A stretched ‘fro with no curl definition left from my NYE style, smushed up in the back from me lying down all day, with no time to wash. For some reason my trusty bun wasn’t working, so I needed to find an easy updo style, and fast. Thank goodness for YouTube.

I found this quick, easy, and CUTE style via MsAriella89:

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Isn’t it quick? And easy? And CUTE? I was able to whip my hair into this style in a matter of minutes. I’m on the hunt for one of her Scuncsi hair clips, but I was able to recreate the style using bobby pins. I laid my edges down with some water + Oyin Handmade Burnt Sugar Pomade, and was REHT TAH GO!

I ended up rocking this style all weekend, and it looked better and better every time! It held up well through fake breakdancing in heels, doublefisting holding other people’s drinks, Jones and wukkin’ up at a soca fete, and more! It’s a simple yet versatile style too – create new looks by dressing it up with a scarf or a clip or playing with the sizes and shapes of the front and back humps.

If you’re looking for an easy style to whip your hair into, give this one a try! I’m looking to get into the YouTube video game this year as well, so keep an eye out for more styles!

Saving Relationships, One Clogged Drain At A Time

I didn’t think I’d write another relationship post so soon, but this is an important one. I’ve learned that oftentimes while in relationships, it’s the little things that make a difference. Matching bras and panties? Cool. Cooking their favourite meal when you know they had a tough day? Nice. Forgoing expensive gifts and giving them a handmade coupon book for “10 kisses” and “an hour-long massage”? Cute, especially when you’re broke. Taking a trip to Canadian Tire and spending $5 on a tool that might just save your relationship? YES! Let me explain.

It was a day not too long ago. I had come home from a horrid day at work, and decided to take a long, hot shower to unwind. There I was, iTunes bumpin’, off in the tub exfoliating with my pom-pom yellin’ “Go 3000!” (I was listening to Art Of Storytelling Pt. 4), and having a grand time caressing my hair with the most conditiony of conditioners. I got out, feeling good and smelling better, then exited the bathroom to allow the Hubs to get his shower on.

I was feeling like a goddess in my towel and turban, and eenie-meenie-minie-moeing my Bath & Body Works drawer of lotions when I heard Homieloverfriend bellow my name from the bathroom. He didn’t yell, he didn’t scream - he bellowed y’all. That sound came from the pit of his stomach and was fully projected with all the strength of his diaphragm. Was he hurt? Did I use up the hot water? What happened? When I entered the bathroom, he shot me a look of utter and complete disgust that I had never seen before.

“Babes! What’s wrong?” I whispered.

“It’s….it’s just….it’s…your hair.”

Lo and behold, I took a peek in the tub…and in my sheer joy of being out of work and in a hot, steamy, frothy, bubbly state of bliss, I had forgotten to clean all of my detangled curlies from the bathtub. Small tings to me, but for a chaetophobe like my hubby, it was an unforgiveable offense. I rubbed his back, promised never to let it happen again, and proceeded to gather up all the loose hair from the tub and drain, all while trying hard not to laugh at how serious he was. His hatred of loose hair is real deal Holyfield. The only time he’s really mad at me is when I leave hair in the tub, on the counter, on the floor, on his sweaters, in his beard…you get it. Let him go in the shower and see one lonely curl, and he’s pissed. Even worse is if he notices that the water is draining much slower than usual…whooooo chile!

"Heffa, I BETTA not see one of those hairs in the bathtub when we get home!"

I finally found the thing to save my marriage and my bathtub drains: a hair snare drain guard.

This simple, inexpensive tool accomplishes something that I thought was impossible. It catches all of your loose hair while still draining water – and saves you SO much trouble. No more annoying clogs! No more having to reach your hand into the drain to pull out hair! No more pouring eyeball-burning chemicals down the drain to dissolve the clog! And best of all, no more angry husbands and fellow bathroom users! Check your local Wal-Mart, Canadian Tire, or Home Hardware to find one of these babies and enjoy!

Depending on the fit of your tub and the size of your drain, a hair snare drain guard may not catch ALL of your hair….but it should catch enough to make a difference. If you’re still struggling with clogged drains, get out some baking soda, vinegar, and boiling water and try this natural clog-cleaning technique.

Morals of this story? 1. Be cognizant of your partner’s pet peeves and do what you can to minimize them. 2. A trip to Canadian Tire might just help your relationship ;)

Have any of you used a drain guard? Do you use any environmentally friendly products to clear out clogs? What are your household pet peeves?