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GLAMOUR & INSPIRATION: 31st Annual Harry Jerome Awards Recap

Whew! I feel like I’m just NOW starting to get back to normal after my crazy hectic weekend! One of the events I’d been looking forward to for a while was the 31st Annual Harry Jerome Awards, and it went down this past Saturday at the Metro Toronto Convention Centre. I was a first-time attendee AND the official blogger for the night, so I was excited to get dolled up and hit the scene!

Ready for an insider’s view? Here we go!

First things first, I had to get my hair situation handled. I headed down to my friends at Curl Bar Beauty Salon and tried out a new sleek, ponytailed look:

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I pulled out an old dress from my closet, touched up my red toenail polish in the car like a real G would, and I was ready to go!

The Harry Jerome Awards (organized by the Black Business and Professional Association) is a feature event in Toronto every year, honouring excellence in the Black Canadian community. I was looking forward to meeting some of the award winners who I interviewed last week, watching performances from awesome Canadian talent like Ray Robinson and Belinda Brady, and networking with the other attendees in the house.

Prior to the main event, I got to peruse the silent auction (that had items like autographed Mike Tyson gloves, art, and Bulova watches), I was interviewed for BBPA’s YouTube channel, and got to catch up with some friends who were both in attendance and volunteering. And let me tell you – people showed OUT at the Harry Jerome Awards! Suits, gowns, the works – everyone that I saw came correct, and I loved the eye candy of all kinds!

Silent auction art

Silent auction art

Tyson gloves and photo

Tyson gloves and photo

After a bit of confusion, I finally got to my seat to enjoy dinner and the show. Political bigwigs like Premiere Kathleen Wynne and Tory leader Tim Hudak were in attendance, and I was impressed at the large-scale production around the awards. Canada’s Prime Minister Stephen Harper attended a year or two ago, so I knew this wouldn’t be a small affair – but it was still impressive to experience in person.

After a series of opening speeches and performances, we got into the awards ceremony, and I really liked the way it was done. Representatives from either the specific field or from the corporate body sponsoring the award would introduce the recipient – instead of having to endure a nervous, long-winded speech, we watched a pre-recorded speech from each winner that showcased them at their best and most relaxed. Then, the winner came out on stage to receive their award and smile for all the cameras. I thought that was a very smart way to go about it – there’s nothing worse than a painfully nervous speaker, or one who “didn’t prepare a speech” and subjects the audience to an excruciatingly long acceptance. The awards ceremony moved along well, and save for a few low points, was full of energy that made you want to pay attention.

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As full-length as I could get.

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One of my pieces was published in the Harry Jerome Awards program book!

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Art piece by Mark Stoddart – Dr. Carlos on the left, Harry Jerome on the right.

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HomieLoverFriend and I

A live auction was also worked into the awards, and given that I’ve never been to an auction before, I found it very interesting. You best believe I stayed still as a statue when the bidding was going on – I’ve seen one too many sitcoms where someone sneezes or stretches, and all of a sudden they’ve bid on a $5000 painting. At that point in the night, I was dying for a bathroom break – but there was no way I was going to move while those big ticket items were up for grabs!

Dr. John Carlos (who I interviewed last year) was the keynote speaker, and was the highlight of my night. He spoke about knowing Harry Jerome back in their Olympic track days, and also about the type of man Harry Jerome was. After doing my own research on Mr. Jerome, it was refreshing to hear a first-hand account of this incredible man. Plus, I just love Dr. Carlos, so I was happy all around.

Dr. Carlos and I!

Dr. Carlos and I!

As if listening to his keynote wasn’t enough – imagine my glee when my friend Mark Stoddart introduced me to Dr. Carlos himself? THAT became the highlight of the night, and I’m still basking in the compliments he gave me about enjoying our interview and being impressed with how thorough I was. He said “I thought to myself, ‘Damn! This girl did her homework!’” and that just fueled me even further to keep doing good work.

All in all, it was quite the night. It would have been perfect if there was more of an opportunity to interact and network with the special guests and attendees, but it was inspirational to be around so many people who are doing so much good work in our community. I left motivated to do amazing work – and hey, who knows. I might just snag a Harry Jerome Award of my own one day!

Did you attend the Harry Jerome Awards? If so, what did you think of the night?

 

ANALOG GIRL IN A DIGITAL WORLD: The She’s Connected Conference Recap

I was addicted to playing with the Furbies at the Hasbro booth at SCCTO…the kid in me came out full force!

It’s been a crazy couple of weeks, but I’m back! How have y’all been? Good? Great? Good!

Last weekend, I had the pleasure of attending the She’s Connected Conference here in Toronto, and I knew I had to recap it for y’all. The She’s Connected Conference (hereby referred to as SCCTO) seeks to connect “digital women” (bloggers and other social media mavens) with Canadian brands, creating connections and opportunities for growth and partnership. I previously wrote about the conference within the larger context of discussing digital diversity, so I was very interested to see how the 2-day conference would play out.

First thing I noticed: sponsorship was on ten. Ford Canada, Telus, and McDonalds (just to name a few) were major sponsors of the conference, and there’s no way you could miss it. From the Ford vehicle activities to the free McCafe lattes and smoothies to the Telus charging stations, we were well taken care of. Swag bags were more like swag suitcases – so many goodies! Personalized T-shirts, pens galore, notebooks, makeup and skin care products – and that was before we walked around the main exhibit room, collecting more fun things from vendors like Maple Leaf Foods, Adult Essentials, IÖGO, and more.

My “Baconista” shirt from Maple Leaf Foods

The Rent Frock Repeat booth – catch them on Dragon’s Den next month!

Eventually, it was time to settle into the breakout sessions. Multiple sessions were scheduled at the same time, but luckily I was able to attend all of the panels and presentations I wanted to without too much conflict. My favourite panels? Writing And Pitching To Magazines (with editors from Today’s Parent, Chatelaine, iVillage, and Huffington Post Canada), How To Create A Sponsorship Package (by the hilarious Raj of Pink Chai Style), Speaking To The Media (with Preet Banerjee,), and All About SEO (by Jennifer Osborne, President of Search Engine People). For me, all of these panels spoke to what I was looking for, and I had ample time to connect one on one with the speakers to introduce myself, share a business card, and make a deeper connection.

Panel time at SCCTO

Kate White’s keynote

The keynote speaker was Kate White, former editor-in-chief of Cosmopolitan Magazine (she stepped down in September). She was DOPE! Her major points were that as women going after success, we have to “go big or go home” – through her own personal experience, she showed us how she worked her way to the top (including a story about how she asked for $50,000 – and got it). She was majorly inspiring, and was the perfect keynote for a roomful of women who are all striving for our own forms of success.

I was really looking forward to the Multicultural Bloggers panel, but SCCTO removed it from the agenda when they final version came down. Instead, we met up at a designated “Multicultural Bloggers” table during the morning networking break, and I met some awesome ladies. The discussions we had at that table led me to believe that a panel or more formal session would have been very welcome, because that networking table wasn’t nearly enough time. Hopefully next year, they’ll leave it in. Speaking of, I know a number of people asked me how diverse the attendees were – and it was really what I expected. Most of the women I met were mommy bloggers, or somehow geared towards blogging about family/children. Culturally, the attendee group was largely Caucasian – all I could think about were the awesome digital women of colour I know who could have really benefited from the conference, and hopefully they’ll jump on it next year!

My new *free* cards courtesy of Moo Cards and SCCTO!

Overall, the positives for me were meeting so many cool Canadian bloggers, Kate White’s keynote, the panel sessions I mentioned above, and the really cool gift bags and products from the sponsors and vendors. The negatives were varied as well. The panels that I didn’t enjoy either had presenters who weren’t great public speakers, or who were presenting material that was common sense or way too general. There was a lot packed into the 2 days, so by the time 8pm rolled around (the start time both nights for separate evening parties), I was ready to go to bed. I missed both night events out of sheer exhaustion, and from other accounts it seems like a lot of women shared the same tired sentiment. It was also interesting (and somewhat jarring) to feel the palpable difference between people who were blogging for the love of writing or their subject matter, and those who were CLEARLY blogging to make a buck or “get famous”. It really made me sit back and think about what my purpose is in this whole blogging thing, and to be honest – I’m happy with what I’m doing and where I plan to take it.

So, the big question – will I go again next year? We’ll see. Like anything else, your experience is what you make it – however, when you’re paying upwards of $200, you expect a little help in making that experience the best it can be. By next year, I’ll have another year of blogging under my belt, so I’m sure my needs and interests will be different. If SCCTO has plans for speakers and knowledge sessions and events that I feel will speak to what I’m dealing with, I’m there. Shoot – if they want me to jump on board as a speaker, I’m down for that too! Overall, I thank She’s Connected with organizing an event of this magnitude, dedicated to Canadian women and Canadian brands moving into the digital era. It’s serious business, so I can’t wait to see how things grow from here!

There you have it – my quick rundown of the She’s Connected Conference 2012! Were you there? What did you think? If you weren’t there and have any questions about the conference, let me know! And did anyone get my “analog girl in a digital world” reference? If you did, bonus points for you! 

AUTUMN HEAT: Hot Toronto Events On The Cheap

Toronto folk – I’m taking today’s post to let y’all know about a couple of dope events that are coming up in the next few weeks! If you’re looking for something to do, the city has something for everybody!

Dead Wit Laugh – The September Edition

My friends behind Fashionably Late Fridays at Dazzling Lounge are keeping the laughs coming with their monthly comedy show, Dead Wit Laugh. I was in attendance for last month’s special Caribana edition, and I’m definitely going to grab my ticket for this month’s show! On Friday, September 21st, hit Dazzling Lounge for Dead Wit Laugh hosted by Marc Trinidad. Marc headlined the August show, and was BEYOND hilarious and outrageous. This time, he’s holding up the hosting duties and is bringing a few of his comedic friends, so I anticipate the energy and the laughs to be on a hundred thousand trillion! Anyone that Marc Trinidad cosigns is a comedian I have to see. Best part of the deal? Tickets are only $10, and also include cover for the afterparty at Dazzling Lounge with DJ Ideal. Laughing and dancing the week’s stress away? I’m down.

The Curly Soiree

The lovely ladies of I Heart My Hair are holding The Curly Soiree on September 29th – this event is tagged as “Canada’s naturally inspired 1-day event that transforms Toronto into a casually chic atmosphere with a flair of sophistication.” Giveaways, product swaps, hair styling demonstrations, and goodie bags filled with enough treats to show your hair some serious love – you get all of this, plus the opportunity to mix and mingle with Toronto curlies! Guest speakers include Safiya’s House of Kreation, Curl Bar Beauty Salon, and Raw 4 Health & Wellness. Advance tickets are only $12 – head here to purchase and get all the details!

Manifesto Festival of Community and Culture

Ever heard of Manifesto, the non-profit grassroots organization dedicated to celebrating art and culture in Toronto? The annual festival touches down in the city from September 21-23. The full weekend lineup can be found here, but I know I’ll be most looking forward to the Fresh Arts 20 x Manifesto Summit on the 22nd. Panel discussions, keynote speakers, and mentor classes will be taking place throughout the day, and we’ll get to see what people like d’bi young, Shad, Kardinall Offishall, Jully Black, Director X, and Pharaohe Monch (Simon Says still goes hard in the whip) have to say about hip hop, art, and cultural expression. Oh, and a free concert at Yonge-Dundas Square headlined by Pharaohe Monch on the 23rd? I’m in there like swimwear!

 

 So, there you have it, folks! A few awesome and cost-effective events coming up to get this autumn season started off right! Will I see you at any of the above? Let me know! Have a great weekend, y’all!

TIME TO WIN: Enter The Caribbean Tales Gala Giveaway!

Photo source: The Examiner

Happy Thursday, y’all! I’m sooooooo excited for this post, because I’m doing my very first giveaway on the blog! Sorry to all who were inquiring after my FB post last night – I am NOT preggo, but I’m clearly overly excited about doing a blog giveaway…lol!

Remember yesterday’s post about the Caribbean Tales Film Festival, opening on September 5th? Well, get ready – the lovely people at Caribbean Tales have graciously given me a pair of tickets to the opening gala, and I want to give them to one lucky ’83 To Infinity reader!

The Prize:

Tickets for you and a friend to the Caribbean Tales Opening Gala and screening, hosted by the Toronto Consulate General for the Republic of Trinidad & Tobago. The gala and screening will be held in Toronto on September 5th starting at 6:30pm, and the film screening begins at 8:30pm. Live music will be provided by Kobo Town – a Toronto-based, Trinidad-influenced calypso band, and DJs giving us the best in Caribbean music. Among the scheduled attendees are Motion (spoken word poet, emcee, and playwright – did y’all catch Aneemah’s Spot?), Cameron Bailey (Artistic Director of the Toronto Int’l Film Festival), Frances-Anne Solomon (founder of Caribbean Tales), and obviously, the Toronto Consulate General for T&T. The main feature of the night will be the screening of The Story of Lovers Rock by Menelik Shabazz, and all this is goin’ down at the beautiful Harbourfront Centre Lakeside Terrace!

Don’t worry – I won’t ask you this!

How To Win:

Step 1: Follow Caribbean Tales on Twitter and/or Facebook (provided you have Twitter/Facebook and aren’t following them already :) )

Step 2: Email me at bee@83toinfinity.com or comment below and let me know YOUR favourite Caribbean movie – Shottas? How Stella Got Her Groove Back? Pirates of the Caribbean? If the Caribbean is involved, I wanna know!

WANT BONUS POINTS? Visit the Caribbean Tales Schedule at a Glance, and let me know which feature film you would be most interested in watching!

Get it? Got it? Good! The lucky winner will be announced on August 30th, so get involved, tell a friend to tell a friend, and get those entries in!

Good luck y’all!

ARTSY FARTSY: The Caribbean Tales Film Festival Is On Its Way

Last week, I shared the news (via Twitter and Facebook) that I was teaming up with the Caribbean Tales Film Festival here in Toronto. While the city is abuzz in September for the Toronto International Film Festival (TIFF), I thought I should let y’all know that another festival will be making the city hot!

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Let’s backtrack. Caribbean Tales is a multimedia company which was founded by wonderwoman Frances-Anne Solomon in 2001. Offshoots of the company include an educational media company, the annual film festival, and Caribbean Tales Worldwide Distribution – the first film distribution company in the English-speaking Caribbean. With bases in Barbados and Toronto, Caribbean Tales’ vision is to “contribute to an inclusive Canadian society by celebrating the rich traditions of Caribbean heritage storytelling”. Upon meeting with Frances-Anne and the Caribbean Tales team, I learned so much about the heart of the movement – which centres around the tenets of celebrating diversity, telling our own stories, and educating Caribbean filmmakers on navigating the international market.

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So – let’s get to the film festival details! The festival kicks off on September 5th with a gala and film screening at Harbourfront’s Lakeside Terrace, sponsored by the Toronto Consulate General for Trinidad & Tobago. The opening film will be The Story of Lovers Rock by Menelik Shabazz, an incredible veteran Black British filmmaker. I love me some Alton Ellis and John Holt, so you know I’ll be up in that piece on the 5th! Films continue from the 10th-15th at Harbourfront’s Studio Theatre, and schedule highlights include The Batty Boy’s Revenge by Alison Duke and Stud Life by Campbell X (with a panel discussion on queer Caribbean cinema), A Day In A Bajan Life by Penny Hynam, and – wait for it – I’m Santana The Movie by Roger Alexis! If you don’t know about the hilarious Trinidadian puppet shorts featuring the one and only Santana, get thee to YouTube and get familiar!

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The Caribbean Tales Film Festival isn’t just about screening the hottest and latest theatrical gems from the Caribbean – it’s also about educating Caribbean filmmakers so that they are able to tackle the international market, get their stories heard/seen, and put the region on the map as a market to contend with. We have Hollywood, Bollywood, and Nollywood, so it’s time to get, er…Collywood (?) out there on the global film scene! In order to assist with this, the Film Festival has created two amazing initiatives. The 48-hour Film Challenge (headed by Michael Miller) puts Toronto up-and-comers to task – can you write, film, and edit a 5-minute short in 48 hours? Completed films will be screened during the film festival, so I can’t wait to see what our homegrown talent comes up with! The Caribbean Tales Incubator is another initiative – a 3-day workshop designed to educate Caribbean filmmakers on honing business plans, creating film and television pitches, and networking with mentors to learn how to get their films sold. In the 10 days of the film festival, I really look forward to meeting all of the Caribbean talent who make their way up to Toronto – it’ll be an exciting time in the city!

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Follow Caribbean Tales on Twitter and Facebook to stay up-to-date on festival details, and hit up Harbourfront Centre for ticket purchase – but do note, there ARE free shows too!

WANT TO WIN TICKETS TO THE GALA? I’ve got you covered!

FIGHT! SONYA BLADE VS. LIU KANG: Toronto’s Battle Of The Sexes Event Recap

The crowd at Toronto's Battle Of The Sexes event

The easiest way to turn into a social butterfly is to have awesome friends who plan awesome events that you just HAVE to support. This past weekend, I continued my fake Toronto socialite life by staying out way past my bedtime on Sunday, but for very good reason! Sunday night was Battle Of The Sexes Toronto, a live-panel event by my homie Telisha of Goddess Intellect.

After the success of last year’s Battle Of The Sexes event in New York City, Telisha was strongly convinced (see: forced) to create a Toronto edition. After weeks of hard work and planning with her team, the big night arrived, and it was DOPE!

My homegirl Gillian and I arrived to the super-sexy Peridot Resto Lounge early enough to grab prime seats, and in no time, the venue was full of good-looking Torontonians. We were all ready to see what this Battle Of The Sexes would entail, and (more importantly) who would win!

The event was described as follows:

Battle of the Sexes is a distinctive yet interactive social event for patrons to network and participate in lively discussions surrounding the topics of love, marriage, sexuality, dating, and relationships.  Founder Telisha Ng creator of the well known blog Goddess Intellect, saw a gap in the market for events of value that cater to young urbanites in search of answers on how to better understand the opposite sex while having fun.

Panelists included Telisha, author Stacey Marie Robinson, Dr. Vibe of the Vibe and Vegas Podcast Show, and Lincoln Anthony Blades of the blog This Is Your Conscience.

The men: Lincoln A. Blades and Dr. Vibe

The women: Stacey M. Robinson and Telisha Ng

Topics included: Safe sex – how do men feel about women who provide their own condoms? Living at home – how open are you to sleeping with someone who still lives at home with their parents? Stereotypes – how much truth is there to the stereotypes we often hear about men and women? The friend zone – how do you avoid it (if you can at all)?

Let me just say – the discussions were HOT. I knew the panelists (especially Mr. Blades) would come correct, but the audience came hard as well! When Lincoln said he’d have “questions” for a woman who pulled out a condom before he did, I thought some women in the audience were going to stone him. The hostess, HLBB from Her Little Black Book asked the audience “When was the last time you were intimate with someone who lived at home?” to which a woman yelled a resounding “This morning!” Not sure if her man, who was sitting next to her, was prepared for her to put it all out there! A few Americans in the house reminded us that the same complaints men and women have of each other in Toronto are the ones they have south of the border as well, so the grass might not be greener. The friend zone conversation broke the definition down in such a way that I wondered how many times I had been friend zoned, or how many times I may have unknowingly friend zoned someone else. I didn’t think the friend zone was that serious…but Battle Of The Sexes let me know that it most definitely was. Yummy drinks helped to loosen some tongues, and delicious desserts kept the convos as sweet as possible. All in all, the event (which was also live-streamed) was a wicked time.

Telisha and I

Want a sneak peek of the event? Here’s a video from Fiana Andrews of Approach2Link:

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Keep up with the Battle Of The Sexes team via their website and Twitter – BOTS will be hitting the road, with events set for Atlanta, San Francisco, and a NYC return!

As far as who won? Well, here’s what Lincoln has to say:

@ @ @ Think I Won Battle Of The Sexes Again! I'm 2-0..HA!
@lincolnablades
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Were you at BOTS in Toronto (or the original NYC event)? If so, what did you think? Have you had similar “battle of the sexes” convos with your friends? How heated do those get?

BEE ON THE SCENE: Malton Moms Workshops & How She Hustles Brunch

As this week comes to an end, I’m reflecting on just how busy and eventful the past few weeks have been. I was honoured to attend a few awesome events, and I wanted to let you all know about them!

First up: my very first speaking engagement! A couple of weeks ago, I was happily surprised to get an email in my inbox inviting me to speak at the Malton Moms group in the Mississauga area. Malton Moms is a networking and support group for mothers in the Malton region, but in reality, they’re so much more than that. Malton Moms provides an environment for mothers to be educated, entertained, supported, and heard. For their Creative Cafe’s “Telling Your Story” edition of special meetings, I was invited to speak about how to “tell your story” with blogging.

With Crystal and Nadine from Malton Moms

For the last two Wednesdays, I spent my evenings in Mississauga with the group and talked, laughed, and learned. For the first session, I covered topics to help the ladies start and maintain their own blogs. It was easy to drive my points home by sharing my own personal experiences, and the ladies were receptive and interactive, which was awesome! For my second session, we focused on the Malton Moms blog, and I helped the group come up with a game plan for updating and revamping their site. This was especially great – the Malton Moms group is doing so many amazing things that it only makes sense for their web presence to mirror all of that awesomeness. Are you in the Malton area and looking for a group of mothers to connect with? You definitely need to get in touch with Malton Moms – check their Facebook page to stay updated! I had a great time, and was humbled and honoured to be invited to speak to their group. I was also inspired – there were a TON of sexy mommies up in there! Go ‘head, ladies!

What comes to mind when you think of spending an afternoon with 100 women you don’t know? For an introvert like me, that’s a nerve-wracking experience, but it’s one I encountered this past Sunday – and I loved it. I was lucky enough to attend the 3rd Annual How She Hustles Brunch at the Courtyard Marriot in downtown Toronto, and I had an amazing time! Hosted by Emily Mills and her team, the brunch was an opportunity to mix, mingle, and make real connections with women excelling in their main hustles and side hustles. This was different from other networking events because it was intimate enough to allow us the opportunity to chat with nearly every woman there. Everyone seemed positive, kind, and genuine in wanting to share their skills and learn about others – no pretentious posing or nonchalant business card tossing here! I was also impressed with the How She Hustles team’s usage of social media – Emily and her team used Twitter and Facebook so effectively, and created a way for women not in attendance to still feel like a part of the event. Awesome gift bags, dope giveaways, the opportunity to meet Twitter-friends in real life, and the chance to connect with other beautiful and inspiring women – this event was a major win all around! Connect with How She Hustles on Facebook, Twitter, and Youtube to stay up to date with future events, because I know I’ll never miss another one!

Big thanks to the homie Ajua Dee for snapping so many great pics!

And the events don’t stop! May is my birthday month, and I have a few cool events planned to celebrate! Like the Facebook page and follow me on Twitter for more details! If you were at the Malton Moms workshops or at the How She Hustles brunch, say hello! I’d love to keep in touch!

Quickies: 3am On Queen Street West

One thing I ADORE about Toronto is being able to spot art almost anywhere. I’m a self-admitted nerd who will walk down the street, see something that makes me stop in my tracks, and pull out my camera or iPhone to take a shot. I took these shots while walking from The Drake Hotel to the car last Friday, and it’s just a taste of the weird and wonderful things you can see when you peek into store windows late at night…

Nuit Blanche aside – where have you seen the best art in the city? Let me know so I can stalk it and get my fake photographer game on…

Bite-Sized Reminders…

In case you needed a pick-me-up, like I did that day…

 

Seen on the Scene

Cool spots around the city…

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@ The Real Jerk

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@ Shuter near Yonge

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@ Broadview & Queen

Captured on my iPhone